Dear Sisters,
I have been married for almost a year and realize that I have made a horrible mistake. I am in love with the man I dated before I met my husband. He doesn't know it and is about to get married. I really want to tell him how I feel but I do not want to hurt my husband. I am so confused.
Jena: Tell me if I have this picture right or not. You have been fantasizing about this chap while laying in bed next to this guy who has promised to be there for you through thick and thin, for better or worse, until one of you checks out permanently. I agree that you are confused. Get over it or get out of it. And, I wouldn’t count on your ex having a change of heart about who he loves.
Michele: Well dear, it sounds as if your ex- must be in love with someone else—being that he’s getting married. So, “Is your husband in love with you?” Girl, you could really be out in the cold.
Elena: You messed up, so deal with it and move on. Its too late to fix this. He has found someone else, ok… Next time don’t be so slow—you snooze, you lose.
“TP” (Our Guy): Even if you tell your ex how you feel, that doesn’t mean he feels the same. My gut tells me you have some love for your husband or you wouldn’t have married him and you wouldn’t care if you hurt him. So work on your marriage!
